The short version
Alexandrite is the harder of the two (8.5 on the Mohs scale). Both are June birthstones, so either makes a fitting gift. Choose by the color you love and how the piece will be worn; for a ring worn every day, the tougher stone will last better.
Sources: GIA: Alexandrite care and cleaning, AGS: Alexandrite, GIA: Moonstone care and cleaning, AGS: Moonstone. Checked October 16, 2026.

