The short version
Tourmaline is the harder of the two (7 to 7.5 on the Mohs scale). Both are October birthstones, so either makes a fitting gift. Choose by the color you love and how the piece will be worn; for a ring worn every day, the tougher stone will last better.
Sources: GIA: Opal care and cleaning, AGS: Opal, GIA: Tourmaline care and cleaning, AGS: Tourmaline. Checked October 16, 2026.

