The short version
Topaz is the harder of the two (8 on the Mohs scale). Both are November birthstones, so either makes a fitting gift. Choose by the color you love and how the piece will be worn; for a ring worn every day, the tougher stone will last better.
Sources: GIA: Topaz care and cleaning, AGS: Topaz, GIA: Citrine care and cleaning, AGS: Citrine. Checked October 16, 2026.

